Don't Allow Love Lost to Keep You From Your Dreams

Years ago, I had a friend that I would have described then as a player. He was always looking for women to talk to, hang out with, and date. He really seemed to want to spend every waking moment of his time with women. 

In my less mature years, I thought it was pretty cool that he spent so much time chasing women. I can’t say I wanted to do the same thing—not every single minute of life—but I didn’t see anything wrong with how he lived. I had also never given his actions much thought beyond the surface, “guys doing what guys do”.

As years passed, we would talk when he was going through painful times in his life. There seemed to be a common denominator in those moments. His low points always seemed to be related to women leaving him and him being single.

I witnessed him in relationship after relationship, at low point after low point, and I eventually realized that I had been wrong all those years. My friend wasn’t a player at all. He...

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You are Not an Imposter!

Have you ever accomplished something that you felt like you didn’t really deserve? I don’t mean in the case that you’re just a humble person or that you were given something you truly didn’t deserve; I mean you worked your ass off and really put in work to get it, only to feel like you didn’t belong among those who had also accomplished that thing.

This can happen when you get a promotion at work, or find success in entrepreneurship, or even when you start a new business. You just have a nagging feeling that you don’t know enough to have accomplished that thing or that you aren’t talented enough to be among the other talented people with whom you are now aligned.

That feeling you experience in those moments is called Imposter Syndrome. We all get it to some degree. Most people get it in small doses for various situations, but some people get it much more severely. It can be so severe that it causes a person to retreat or give up the very...

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I Bet Beyonce's Friends Listen to Her Shit Now

 

Starting your business is an exciting and difficult time all wrapped into a warm blanket of pins and needles. You’re happy one minute, frustrated the next, and sometimes you just don’t know how to feel. 

Sometimes people have this fantastical view of what starting a business is like. They picture rubbing elbows with celebrities on mega yachts from day one. I think most business owners will tell you though, it’s a difficult road, but a road that’s definitely worth it. 

When people have this misconception of what starting and running a business is like—especially in the beginning—there are a few tried and true complaints that you can expect those people to have. One of them is that their friends don’t support their business.

Since my audience is full of entrepreneurs, I see this complaint a lot. I’ll admit, I’ve even wondered myself about why certain friends are much less supportive than others. This isn’t...

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What Do You Think About Yourself?


I want you to take a moment and finish each of the following statements with the first thought that comes to mind.

  1. I can…
  2. I have…
  3. I believe…
  4. I am…

Did you finish those statements with positive thoughts about yourself or negative thoughts about yourself?

In a perfect world, it would always be easy for us to affirm positive thoughts about ourselves, but sometimes we can end up in a mental space that causes our brains to be overrun by negativity. When we find ourselves there, it can be hard to see our way out.

Self doubt is something that we’ve all struggled with at some point in our lives, so if you’re currently struggling, you shouldn’t feel like you’re in this alone. It’s a human thing to go through, and you happen to be human.

Turning any negative thoughts you might have into positive ones takes deliberate decision making. Even when you’re feeling confident and good about yourself, you have to be fiercely...

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Your Entrepreneur Zodiac

 

If you’re into astrology at all, you might check your horoscope daily, or compare zodiac compatibility when you meet a new bae. But have you ever considered what your zodiac sign says about you as an entrepreneur?

I put together this summary of what I think each zodiac sign’s characteristics might say about them as an entrepreneur. 

The good news is that I’m a Capricorn and according to the internet, Capricorns are the most successful sign in the world. Okay…I made that up, but Jeff Bezos is a Capricorn and he represents us Capricorns very well in business.

What do you think your signs strengths and weaknesses in business would be? Let’s run down the list and see if you’re right.

Aquarius (January 20—February 18)

Aquarius entrepreneurs come up with great business ideas because they can see opportunities to solve problems that most others don’t see. They tend to be on the shy side, so the idea of doing a lot of face to...

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There's a Lesson in Negative Experiences

I’ve had two life threatening experiences in my life that I would definitely categorize as negative experiences.

One happened when I was a teenager. It’s no secret that I can’t swim. I’ve talked about that a few times here, but when I was 14, I went to a water park on a school field trip. 

My classmates and I had been at the park for hours and I had stayed in my safe zone at the shallow end of a wave pool pretty much all day. At some point, I let my two of my friends talk me into getting onto a two person tube so the three of us could go hang out at the deep end. *Face palm.*

The plan was that one friend would pull us out to the deep end as myself and the third person sat on the tube. I expressed my trepidation because of the fact that I couldn’t swim, and they assured me that we’d be safe on this tube, and if I fell in, they’d save me.

Everything in my soul told me don’t do it, but my friends convinced me to ignore my gut and...

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Entrepreneur Bae - Dating an Entrepreneur

Entrepreneurs are usually very ambitious people. We have big dreams and lofty goals, and most of the time, anything that gets in the way of those goals gets nixed. We don’t have time to waste doing things that are meaningless or that don’t advance our interests. 

So when it comes to being a single entrepreneur, it can be easy to find yourself in a sad state of singles purgatory. There, you’ll find it hard to make time to focus on your dating life, and when you do, it’s hard to connect with someone who is unambitious or who doesn’t understand your extreme ambition.

I’m single. I have been for quite some time now, and most of the time, dating takes a back seat to my goals. I have a habit of telling myself that once I reach my goals, I’ll be able to dedicate more time to dating.

Right now, my business is bae. I’m fully dedicated to it and I feel guilty when I spend too much time doing other things. For instance, when I go out for...

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5 Ways to Instantly Boost Your Confidence as an Entrepreneur

Running a business is full of tasks that involve doing things that may be intimidating for some entrepreneurs. For instance, many business owners find interacting with people for business —talking to customers, suppliers, business partners, etc.—horribly intimidating. Things like hosting a podcast like I do, communicating on social media or even talking to people via email or telephone can give people such anxiety that they run from doing it. 

No matter what business you are in, you’ll have to communicate with people in some form or another. You may have to talk to customers to make sales, handle customer service inquiries, talk to suppliers, talk to business partners, talk to employees, and so much more. Whether you’re a new entrepreneur or a seasoned one, this can be one of the most intimidating parts of doing business. 

Many times, it’s intimidating because you have a hard time giving yourself credit for being an expert. You may feel...

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Is the Universe Speaking to You?

I’ve been thinking about synchronicity a lot lately. Not quite sure what that is? Google defines it as…

The simultaneous occurrence of events which appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection.

It’s a concept that was first introduced by German Psychologist, Carl Jung, around 1921.

I’ve been wanting to talk about it here, because I believe that there’s significance in synchronicity when it comes to intuition and how we communicate with the supernatural universe—or how it communicates with us. So I’ve been thinking about synchronicity a lot lately, and yesterday I realized that I’ve been experiencing it a lot in the last few days.

The synchronicity I’ve been experiencing is that I’ve been seeing 6s like crazy. I’m not typically aware of numerical patterns like that—I could look at the clock at 11:11 and it would go right over my head—but for whatever reason, this 6 episode stood...

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Should You Go Into Business With Friends?

When you have a really good friend, you want to do everything together. You want to hang out, eat together, drink together, and sometimes even live together. You spend so much time and share so much of the same energy that you can basically finish each other’s thoughts. 

If you happen to have that entrepreneurial spirit, you’ve probably dreamed out loud about your aspirations to your good friend, and they’ve probably dreamed out loud about theirs to you. You may spend countless hours bouncing ideas off of each other and planning out how you’ll spend your first Million in your future life.

If you both dream of starting a business, there may even be times that you talk about starting a business together, but is that a good idea? It depends.

There are so many layers to this question that there’s really no clear cut answer, so let’s look at a few of the things that you should consider before you decide to take the plunge plunge and basically...

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